[Dynamar]

Darlin'... my advice is be who you are or try to be who you want to be, and let the chips fall where they may. There's plenty of people who like curves to their women, and don't want to be cut in half by hipbones when fucking too skinny people. Instead of worrying about what you think other people want to have, seek out people who "want what you got" (they're usually a whole lot more fun, anyway).

As always, just my .02!