Struggling with weight, whether it is five extra pounds or fifty extra pounds, is as common in the swinging world as it is in the "real" world. We all have our body issues - and we all have our preferences as to who we like to play with.
Some are turned on only by the visual - some are turned on only by personality - but most have a good blend of both. For me, I have found that the prospect of getting naked in front of people has been a wonderful motivation for getting in shape (a process I am still in).
You are NOT too fat to swing. You may have plenty of reasons to lose weight, but you shouldn't feel like you are the only one who is a "normal" person. If you want to hang out with those of us who are trying, like you, to shed a pound or two, come over
here and join us!
Spoomonkey