I am not barbie and Hot is not Ken.

We are normal people and age and kids have taken there toll on both of us. Now, I am not saying we do not care cause we do. I am about 30lbs over weight, but I do not LOOK fat. I am just kinda chunky.
Every AD I read it seems like everyone is underweight and looking for someone the same size they are. If I had a buck for ever ... No fat people... AD.
So, really, I know that looks matter. But if your just a little Chunky ( which I hope not to be soon, Its coming off just slowly) is it a major turnoff?
Does it turn you off if people are slim and toned with the 36-24-36 measurements? Does it matter if the men are not ripped?
Am I the only woman on earth that does not like skinny guys?!?