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Originally Posted by stupidnewbie Persoanlly I'm in no hurry what so ever, she has all the time in the world. I know that once she's ready to go... look out! |
This is an excellent attitude to have, and will probably get you pretty far. I know that when my wife and I started, we (well, mostly I) had a number of "rules" that we no longer have. After time, they felt like artificial barriers that didn't serve any purpose and we both agreed to let them go. We're still relative newbies to the lifestyle, but we've come a long way in the last year with no major problems.
The main thing is to discuss any change that comes up, before said change occurs. If everything is spelled out before-hand, you'll both be able to handle it with ease.
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Originally Posted by stupidnewbie Oh yeah.. Today is our 20 year anniversary! WOO HOO! |
Congrats!