Re: Discussing boundaries, what a shocker! Well, it seems that each and every post has brought up some valid points. I have to say I'm impressed with the quality of replies! Thanks!!
We have continued to discuss this and I think her reaction was part of her getting used to the ideas of rules in general. With each other, we are very ... well we will literally try almost anything once, so when she came up with a list , I almost fell out of my chair. However the more thought she puts into things, the more reasonable she is being. Persoanlly I'm in no hurry what so ever, she has all the time in the world. I know that once she's ready to go... look out!
We went to meet one couple already and have been invited to a party. She has actually been prodding me along!
Oh yeah.. Today is our 20 year anniversary! WOO HOO! |