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stupidnewbie · 07-31-2005, 11:36 PM

As the wife and I get closer to our first playtime with another couple we have been having some serious talks. The other night I asked her what she felt would be "over the line". Man was I surprized! The particulars are not that importent here, but she is being MUCH more restrictive that I would have thought, almost to the point of taking all the fun out of the whole idea and giving me second thoughts. We have a good relationship and are very open with each other, but she literally floored me with some of the things she came up with. How the heck do I deal with it??

Hmmm, well trying not to go into too much detail, but give enough to work with. She has restricted it down to almost nothing but penetration,almost no oral or any of the really fun stuff, no kissing even... it's nearly opposite of what I expected (and what she has said before). I'm hoping it was just a mood she was in, but it has shaken me enough that I'm looking for advice!

07-31-2005, 11:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
stupidnewbie Registered Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Johnson City, TN.	Wife's boundaries too restrictive! As the wife and I get closer to our first playtime with another couple we have been having some serious talks. The other night I asked her what she felt would be "over the line". Man was I surprized! The particulars are not that importent here, but she is being MUCH more restrictive that I would have thought, almost to the point of taking all the fun out of the whole idea and giving me second thoughts. We have a good relationship and are very open with each other, but she literally floored me with some of the things she came up with. How the heck do I deal with it?? Hmmm, well trying not to go into too much detail, but give enough to work with. She has restricted it down to almost nothing but penetration,almost no oral or any of the really fun stuff, no kissing even... it's nearly opposite of what I expected (and what she has said before). I'm hoping it was just a mood she was in, but it has shaken me enough that I'm looking for advice!