Connie,
I can see WHY your attitude towards bi-females is this way! I'd get SO turned off with pushy people, let alone, bi-females!
Hubby & I are NOT like them. The dancing thing and kissing, etc....That's SO not me! *lol* Again, to each's own.
I'd rather get to know other couples/singles for who they are, their personality and attitudes, etc....Now IF they turn out to be bi/bi-curious, then that's fine too. But we let them know, that I'm only bi"SOMEtimes", and that we don't look into playing with other JUST for having any bi-experiences! We feel just fine playing with couples that are straight! And that way, there's no "expectations" whatsoever between the females & males for that matter...
We met with this one couple for the first time in person at a restaurant, had appetizers, a few drinks, dinner, more drinks...The next thing we knew, the wife was all over me, trying to play footsies under the table, every time she excused herself, she would peck me on the cheek with a kiss on her way to the bathroom, she kept insisting to her hubby, that we should REALLY get together, cause she thinks that "this" would work between her & I, yada yada yada....
And I felt SO uncomfortable! The thought of another woman cummin' on to me THAT way, being SO pushy and all! I couldn't believe what I was witnessing, I bet the other customers must've felt the same way! But then, I didn't feel TOO bad, cause she started cummin' to the waitresses too. *lol*
Bottom line, I told her that I NEEDED my "personal" space, and that she was waaaaay TOO close for comfort for me! *LOL* She TRIED to respect that, but from time to time, she just couldn't resist me, and tried to get "close" to me again. And the more she drank, the MORE she got "wild & hot" about the site of me! After awhile, her hubby & I were telling her ENOUGH already! Quiet down and just shut up! *LMBO* She thought that was SO cute! *Shaking my head lol*
Needless to say, that was the LAST time we ever saw them again. Phew!!! Thank God!
What an experiece THAT was! GOD, that felt weird!
*lol*
Wife of CyberMWCouple