Re: Marriage/ Divorce This is my second marriage. My hubbys first. I did not swing with the first. My ex went with out me and i did not like it. Tried to get him to include me. Did not work. The next one was not a marriage, but we were partners for 4 yrs. We did not swing, but he introduced me to some 3somes and my first BI experiences. My husband now, was into group sex before our marriage. We have invested 8yrs into our marriage. We built our friendship, trust, security, and love before we even decided this was right or wrong for us. That does not mean that newly married couple don't enjoy swinging right away. Or that new partners do not. I just don't think we could have handled before now. We had discussed swinging before now, but the opportunity never came. I found AFF and joined a group there that did greet n meets. I showed it to him and said we have the opportunity now. Do you want to explore this further. Thats how we got started and we are loving it! |