Well, for myself I was fighting to get out of the mold, I found that a good description, one other couple used it. I could remember going against the normal, wanted to be different in all my attutides as well as behavior. I grow up on a farm and felt very close to nature, and it was a part of that feeling that gave me the inside desire to know what way it should be, I knew as a child that something was dishonest with society. I had a high sex drive and masturbation was a big part of my life. I lose my virginity very early. I feel that in most cases, young females are not usually as active as I was, the males are I think, don't really know, that might be another question. My husband was a virgin until he went in the Navy at a young 19 years old. He was actively playing with girls by the age of 10 or 11 years old, mostly just touchy feely and oral sex. My husband says that he knew he liked girls at a very young age. We are in the lifestyle now because I want to explore my sexuality, I have let myself be me alittle and fine I like the ladies as much as my husband.lol
