I think that's what I was trying to say, but not as eliquentley as you did. We want to expand on something (sexually) that we both find very interesting (actually very human, very natural) .. We have been together for about 16 years now, and would hope at this point we know each other. One thing I do know, is that we are very secure with each other and I would have to believe that would be a prerequisit to any type of swapping activity.
When she describes in detail her fantasy about having sex with another man, I find it a complete turn on, without jealousy. And want her to do that because one, i want to watch, two, she deserves every bit of what life has to offer. And we have a great sexlife. Dont get me wrong, we are not out to spice up our sexlife, just rev it up alittle.
AL&BJ