[asr999]

CyberMWCouple,
thanks for your insight, sounds like you "been there done that" and are caring about people, especially those that are doing so the first time. Like i said, we have talked about this alot, and don't feel like we are jumping into something we are not prepared for. But, as you pointed out, fantasies and real life can be two different things. Problem is we are at a place where we Have to do it, since we have exhausted our lovemaking talk and truelly do want to experience some of it, or a piece of it. Don't get me wrong, we are not bored with our lovemaking, just want to expand our experience.

thanks again

Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
asr999,

You can never be "too selective", especially when it cums to sharing your lifetime mate with a stranger you both met off an ad/internet/mags/etc. (with whom you both wanna take your time getting to know each other before taking your relationship any further than "just friends"). Communication, trust & honesty, patience & understanding are important to ANY relationship. Like dating, but now you have 3 or more people involved. Same goes with playing with "close friends" of yours, which I think is pretty cool!

In the process of your search, both of you should cum to mutual agreement, when choosing your playmates, whether it be physical attraction, personality, or attitude, etc. If one of you are not comfortable with "playing" with either the male or female of potential couples/partners, then maybe they're in the "friends only" catagory, and not for "sexual-play friends" catagory. You'll never know, but you don't wanna rush things either, so take your time and move at your own pace, set your rules ahead of the "game", and make adjustments as needed.

Until then, be very selective and don't cut yourselves short of attaining both your fantasies. It'll happen, and when it does, if you've taken all the precautions you've set for your search, you won't be disappointed!

And btw...You "say experienced because we have lived all our fantasies verbally with each other during our love making... Believe me, actually having your fantasies becum reality vs. verbal fantasies (so far), is two CUMpletely different scenerios. Just make sure that both of you are prepared for the unknown, but willing to have fun and enjoy your fantasies when they do cum true...


Good luck & have FUN!
Wife of CyberMWCouple