[starlinn]

Bigun,
What kind of vibes did your wife receive from her? Was it "I really think that she is interested in me" or "Wow, I am really interested, and I need a way to get this woman interested in me" Did you get her number? Is she a friend, or did you just meet her at this event? Does she know that you are swingers? If you were friends before the event, that is a totally new thread...LOL If you just met her through this event, then there are possibilities. If you have her number, maybe you guys should call her and meet for dinner? Ask her then that you recall that she was ready for some fun, and wondered what kind of fun she was talking about. Before all that, discuss with your wife how she feels about the woman. Being in the same boat as you both, (always looking for the single bi female) if I were interested, I would definatly pursue it based on the above mentioned advice. (did I feel an interest, and am I interested in her) I hope this helps. Let us know how it goes.