Thanks for the info... we were starting to think we were too "slelctive" and alittle too cautious.
Thank You for your reply,
Al&BJ
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Originally posted by anandjeff2:
Well what we did was join a few sites that had swingers ads. We talked with people via AOL messenger and when we felt that we had found someone we liked we would talk on the phone and then meet. Many meeting truned out to be duds..some were potential..the funniest thing is the first couple we played with were not what we were looking for but we have a great relationship and things happened naturally. Don't rush into anything and listen carefully to people. There are a lot of wierdos out there and you have to learn how to tell the real from the fakes. What you have to do is figure out what you are looking for and what rules you will have. Then find people who think like you..at least we find they are the best for us...and pursue it at the pace you feel most comfortable with. It took us a year before we even found any couples we liked. And even then we had to weed out the ones that we thought matched our criteria but really didn't. Its a long process sometimes but with expereience you get better at it. Good luck!
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