When he asked me that I told him I don't know but that I've made it clear that I'm not a skinny girl...I told him I do have a tummy and he said "well, we can work on that" (!).
Well, first of all, I have been married 20 years, and my husband has never known how much I weigh. I guess if I was a perfect 10, and a 36-26-36 I may tell him, but now that I have been loosing weight, I tell him how much I lost, but not how much I weigh. BTW, I consider myself a big girl...
With that aside, I am going to play Devil's advocate here...Could he have mistaken that you mentioned you had a bigger tummy, that you were unhappy about that, and he is willing to help you with that? What did he say when you said that you were content with it? As the time to meet draws closer, maybe he is having simular feelings about meeting as you are. Meeting someone for the first time always brings out different emotions. I say, since it is planned, and you have spoken about so many things, you should go for it. Watch his expression when he first sees you. This will tell you alot.
One thing that makes me nervous is the amount of time that you plan to spend with him the first time you meet. Are you meeting in a public place, so that you can leave, if red flags flare up? Do you have alternative plans, should something go bad? Please consider this. There are alot of weirdos out there that prey on young single women. Safety first Jennifer. Let us know how everything goes!