We went to an on-premise club our first time. It was a little mind boggling, but you definitely got to see what goes on and make a decision if that is for you. We actually did play a little our first time, we both felt comfortable.
I have never been to a "social" or dance........They always seemed like kind of a waste of time! If you go to an on-premise club with the agreement before hand that neither will doing anything but looking, you should be fine. If you are approached just let them know it's your first time and you just want to take it in and not rush, every club I have been to is totally cool about that |