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jenniferblue · 07-29-2005, 09:14 AM

This is to address JandL's comment about going ahead and telling him what I weigh since he's going to see when we meet anyway. That does make sense but I honestly have no idea what I weigh lol. I don't keep scales in my house, I just don't weigh myself period because I don't see a point in it. I've worn the same size for at least the last 4 years so it's staying the same. What that 'same' is I'm clueless about and have no interest in learning. And weight can be distributed so differently on different people that one person can weigh 160 and look slim and another could weigh 160 and look like a bbw. I do have a big butt and hips and breasts, it's a classic hourglass shape with a tummy...but on someone else it could all be on her tummy with a flat butt and skinny legs and hips and that person is not going to look like she weighs the same as me. If I did know how much I weigh, I don't really think that's going to tell him anything anyway, he would probably be anticipating someone much bigger than me if I had a number to give him. He told me that he guessed I weigh about 145 and there's no damn way that I weigh that little. It would put me at about a size 12 jeans instead of 18/20 if I did lol. I think he's just going to have to wait and see in person.....and I'm going to have to keep in mind that this is probably going to be a 'no-go' because his preference is for smaller girls. Then if it works out it will be a pleasant surprise.

07-29-2005, 09:14 AM	#11 (permalink)
jenniferblue Active Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 20 Location: Singing in the Rain Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:jenniferblue	Re: A question for the bigger girls This is to address JandL's comment about going ahead and telling him what I weigh since he's going to see when we meet anyway. That does make sense but I honestly have no idea what I weigh lol. I don't keep scales in my house, I just don't weigh myself period because I don't see a point in it. I've worn the same size for at least the last 4 years so it's staying the same. What that 'same' is I'm clueless about and have no interest in learning. And weight can be distributed so differently on different people that one person can weigh 160 and look slim and another could weigh 160 and look like a bbw. I do have a big butt and hips and breasts, it's a classic hourglass shape with a tummy...but on someone else it could all be on her tummy with a flat butt and skinny legs and hips and that person is not going to look like she weighs the same as me. If I did know how much I weigh, I don't really think that's going to tell him anything anyway, he would probably be anticipating someone much bigger than me if I had a number to give him. He told me that he guessed I weigh about 145 and there's no damn way that I weigh that little. It would put me at about a size 12 jeans instead of 18/20 if I did lol. I think he's just going to have to wait and see in person.....and I'm going to have to keep in mind that this is probably going to be a 'no-go' because his preference is for smaller girls. Then if it works out it will be a pleasant surprise.