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jenniferblue · 07-28-2005, 11:34 PM

Thanks for the replies so far.....this is SO helpful to me. The thing is that I don't forsee my size (or my tummy) being a barrier to me in this lifestyle at all. Maybe it's just because I 'm from a small town in the south but it's been my experience since I've been divorced (6 years ago) that a lot of guys really PREFER bigger girls. I personally like tall, really slim guys (maybe it's because they're opposite me lol) and I've dated several guys like this, just not in this lifestyle. I was married for 12 years and my weight was a constant issue with my ex-husband - even when I was a size 12 he had a problem with it. (emotionally abusive marriage, no swinging just much cheating on his part), something he used to take away my self-esteem. So it is SO important to me now to be with somebody who validates and accepts me exactly as I am. And I would like it to be somebody who is friendly to this lifestyle because it fascinates me. And I don't consider myself bi-curious but as far as couples go, I find a bigger girl much more physically appealing so if there were any girl/girl at all I would want her to be around the same size as me.

07-28-2005, 11:34 PM	#7 (permalink)
jenniferblue Active Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 20 Location: Singing in the Rain Status: Single Swing Lifestyle Name:jenniferblue	Re: A question for the bigger girls Thanks for the replies so far.....this is SO helpful to me. The thing is that I don't forsee my size (or my tummy) being a barrier to me in this lifestyle at all. Maybe it's just because I 'm from a small town in the south but it's been my experience since I've been divorced (6 years ago) that a lot of guys really PREFER bigger girls. I personally like tall, really slim guys (maybe it's because they're opposite me lol) and I've dated several guys like this, just not in this lifestyle. I was married for 12 years and my weight was a constant issue with my ex-husband - even when I was a size 12 he had a problem with it. (emotionally abusive marriage, no swinging just much cheating on his part), something he used to take away my self-esteem. So it is SO important to me now to be with somebody who validates and accepts me exactly as I am. And I would like it to be somebody who is friendly to this lifestyle because it fascinates me. And I don't consider myself bi-curious but as far as couples go, I find a bigger girl much more physically appealing so if there were any girl/girl at all I would want her to be around the same size as me.