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Originally posted by Brian:
is it okay again to bring up the fact that my favorite sexual thing is watching 2 guys do 1 woman? But let her know I wouldnt want to watch HER? |
Yes that is a very different question. You see it was easy to assume in the first question that the issue was that you DID want to watch her. Now you are saying tho that you have developed this fantasy with her but have no desire to fulfill it with her at this point. My point in my earlier post was not that it was too early to talk to her about it (which should be easy since you already have talked to her about it) but rather that it was too early to be acting on your fantasy (most likely), which is something that you obviously agree on.
It's never too early to talk about what turns you on. You've already brought it up so she knows that the idea of a 3some does. I agree with Danc if it turns you on talk to her about it. Just because you talk about it doesn't mean that you want to or are ready to do it with her. But it does plant the thought in her head.
Continue to discuss your fantasies with each other, and when the time is right and you feel comfortable with the idea of taking the next step the door is already open to broach that subject.