Well from my (female) perspective, I think for MOST women 1 month is a little early.
In most cases, that would have been way too early for me. However my husband and I had discussed almost all sexual fantasy's and possibility's within a couple monthes into our relationship and had no problem. But we also were relatively sure we would be together in a long-term commitment, which it turns out we are. If this is a casual dating relationship only, she may take offense that you want her to "do" other men. If her previous experience was with her ex-husband, obviously that was a committed (at the time) relationship. I think most women are more comfortable with exploring in the context of a secure, committed relationship. So to make a long story short, I would just let the whole 3sum, swinging thing rest until either SHE brings it up again or you are to the point where it is a serious relationship and you are looking at sharing your life (style) with her |