The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How soon to bring up swinging with a new girlfriend?

Brian · 12-07-2001, 01:50 PM

Thanks Dave, yeah your pretty much right.
Since she has already done the 2-guys thing I assume shes pretty much open to it again, Ill have to ask her. I was just thinking that it may be too soon in the relationship to open this door right now. I dated a girl before that was a little upset that I was getting into thinking about her with another guy so soon after we started dating, 3 months. She made the comment that if I brought it up after 6 or 7 months or something then it would of been okay. So that probably made me a little gun shy.

Maybe Ill ask her tonight to tell me about these 3-somes she was in and just take it from there.

Thanks Dave

12-07-2001, 01:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
Brian Active Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 22 Location: Michigan	Thanks Dave, yeah your pretty much right. Since she has already done the 2-guys thing I assume shes pretty much open to it again, Ill have to ask her. I was just thinking that it may be too soon in the relationship to open this door right now. I dated a girl before that was a little upset that I was getting into thinking about her with another guy so soon after we started dating, 3 months. She made the comment that if I brought it up after 6 or 7 months or something then it would of been okay. So that probably made me a little gun shy. Maybe Ill ask her tonight to tell me about these 3-somes she was in and just take it from there. Thanks Dave