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marlinspike · 07-27-2005, 06:31 PM

I am married to my second wife and we have been active in the lifestyle.

An incident that happened while I was married to wife #1 turned me toward the lifestyle. Late one night #1 sneaked out of the apartment enroute to a late night session with a boyfriend down the street. I just happened to see her in the glow of a streetlight and knew her immediately by her figure. I followed and caught her in a sex act with her boyfriend. Then I realized that she had been screwing other guys for years. We had 4 kids and divorce was undesireable.

I learned about the lifestyle and rationalized that I could use #1's need for extramarital sex as a ticket for my pleasure too. We went to swing clubs together. There were unexplained absences that suggested that swinging with me did not fully meet her needs. We finally seperated. I met a nice widow and soon the widow and I were actively swinging.

After all the kids were 18 or older, #1 and I were divorced.

Within 6 months, I was married to wife #2. She had never been married, but told me about her prior very active sex life.

We became practicing nudists and eventually began swinging together. But there is no cheating by either of us.

07-27-2005, 06:31 PM	#32 (permalink)
marlinspike Registered Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Arkansas Status: couple	Re: Promiscuity and Swinging I am married to my second wife and we have been active in the lifestyle. An incident that happened while I was married to wife #1 turned me toward the lifestyle. Late one night #1 sneaked out of the apartment enroute to a late night session with a boyfriend down the street. I just happened to see her in the glow of a streetlight and knew her immediately by her figure. I followed and caught her in a sex act with her boyfriend. Then I realized that she had been screwing other guys for years. We had 4 kids and divorce was undesireable. I learned about the lifestyle and rationalized that I could use #1's need for extramarital sex as a ticket for my pleasure too. We went to swing clubs together. There were unexplained absences that suggested that swinging with me did not fully meet her needs. We finally seperated. I met a nice widow and soon the widow and I were actively swinging. After all the kids were 18 or older, #1 and I were divorced. Within 6 months, I was married to wife #2. She had never been married, but told me about her prior very active sex life. We became practicing nudists and eventually began swinging together. But there is no cheating by either of us.