 Re: where to begin????
thanks you guys. Guess only time will tell if I'll ever be able to open up. We talked a lot last night and both of us were looking at every website we could find. We spent a lot of time linking each other to the pages we were on individually. I asked about starting off with a situation like what I quoted from Alura and if he would be ok with that. He said when I'm ready we'll start however I would be comfortable. That was very encouraging. But I think I'm still going to wait a while. We have a couple of issues to deal with and get through first. After our issues are straightened thenit will be time to play. I'm ready to start with the soft-swinging now, just not going to til the issues are fixed. I know myself too well and I would end up holding it over his head: "Well, I did this for you so you need to do this for me." Not the way I really feel, cause the soft stuff is exciting for me, not just him. But I would still try and use it to get my way in an argument. So now it's just a matter of time and patience to fix the rest.
You guys have been great at offering advice and I appreciate all of it. While we're working at the other issues, I'll be visiting ya'll a bunch. "Research" you know. I wanna know as much as possible to make an informed decision. When it does happen I'll let you know how it goes, just no gory details. Sorry. facelick |