The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Considering swinging, but have other issues, where do we start?

all4him · 07-26-2005, 11:21 PM

Ok, just read something Alura posted in "am i ready?"

"We think y'all are on the right track, HippieChick! You've made some good, solid decisions.

We're not clubbers, but there is one in Tulsa and I'm sure y'all could go there, watch and play with each other. I'd think you might find a bunch of couples doing the same thing.

Two couples making love with their spouses in the same room or bed is called "soft swinging." There are lots of folks who do only that, and some full-swappers who are willing to soft-swap from time to time.

Hang around on the board with us, though. We've come to like you.

Alura"

With the issues we (or I) have, do you think this type of situation would be a safe way to start? At least until I'm more comfortable? Or should we not do anything until we're ready for everything? Sorry, I know it's kind of stupid for a woman my age to be asking people she doesn't know about stuff like this that's so personal. Just very confused on everything right now. Thanks again.

07-26-2005, 11:21 PM	#6 (permalink)
all4him Registered Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 8 Location: las vegas	Re: where to begin???? Ok, just read something Alura posted in "am i ready?" "We think y'all are on the right track, HippieChick! You've made some good, solid decisions. We're not clubbers, but there is one in Tulsa and I'm sure y'all could go there, watch and play with each other. I'd think you might find a bunch of couples doing the same thing. Two couples making love with their spouses in the same room or bed is called "soft swinging." There are lots of folks who do only that, and some full-swappers who are willing to soft-swap from time to time. Hang around on the board with us, though. We've come to like you. Alura" With the issues we (or I) have, do you think this type of situation would be a safe way to start? At least until I'm more comfortable? Or should we not do anything until we're ready for everything? Sorry, I know it's kind of stupid for a woman my age to be asking people she doesn't know about stuff like this that's so personal. Just very confused on everything right now. Thanks again.