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Originally Posted by Alura We think y'all are on the right track, HippieChick! You've made some good, solid decisions.
We're not clubbers, but there is one in Tulsa and I'm sure y'all could go there, watch and play with each other. I'd think you might find a bunch of couples doing the same thing.
Two couples making love with their spouses in the same room or bed is called "soft swinging." There are lots of folks who do only that, and some full-swappers who are willing to soft-swap from time to time.
Hang around on the board with us, though. We've come to like you.
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Out of all the advice I've seen on the boards, I think this one did it for me. I didn't know that other's would be willing to do it this way. I thought it was an all or nothing kinda thing, always either a 3some or a swap. Thank you Alura. I think that's the way for my bf and I to start, because I have no trouble seeing and being seen. Maybe someday I'll lose some more of my inhibitions and be able to take the next step, but for now this seems perfect. :rollseyes Why didn't I think of that myself????
