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Originally Posted by all4him I have to admit, I'm intrigued by the idea, but... i'm afraid it will cause problems between us. Does he want this because I'm not enough for him? I'm a little insecure still in our relationship whcih has been going on for about two years. We've had trust issues in the past mostly having to do with jealousy, and it's been from both sides, his ex, my ex. |
Just what you wrote there says that you really need so spend a great deal of time TALKING to your partner before you even consider this.
Swinging involves a great deal more then just sex and you hit on some of the main problems.
Trust, Jealousy are two of the biggest. From either side.
The "handle" you are using also says a great deal. As long as you are doing this for him you will end up regretting it.
I have a feeling you, and him might be young. You have only been together two years yet and have a great deal to learn about each other before you break it all up trying to do "for him" all the time.
You are making a good move by asking things in this forum though. Hopefully you take a great deal of time and read the 100's/1000's of threads here before you venture out into this lifestyle.