Re: where to begin???? All4him...
I think your name is part of your problem... if you are going into this venture just for him, then you will not feel comfortable "in your own skin" in a swinger situation. I may be totally off base here, as you do say that you would like to try - but are you trying only to appease your b/f?
Do you have any interest in being with other people, with your b/f present? Another man or multiple men? Another woman? Will you enjoy seeing your b/f enhoying other people and others pleasuring him?
Please read, read and read some more - the messages on this board. Have a heart-to heart with yourself and your b/f about both of your motives for wanting this lifestyle...
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