You guys are right about ending it and moving on.This is what I guess my gut feeling is but since the guy has been a long time friend, I guess I thought I could salvage the friendship. There is so much psycology involved with sex and swinging and sometimes things cloud my mind. I guess if he had wanted to keep the friendship alive, he wouldnt have gone behind my back the way he did. At least my wife respects me enough to be honest or I may have never known and that would only stink up the whole thought of swinging.
It is hard to find guys that can handle and appreciate what we are into and hard to let one of them go. It must be harder than I thought for a guy to have sex with her and not try to get involved in other ways.I will have to keep that in mind from now on.
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