You're welcome, watcherone! :-)
As for us, if there's any problem at all with the lifestyle that'll hurt or come between us, no matter what it is, we'd drop it REAL fast! Nothing is worth coming between our relationship! If it was causing this much frustration and pain, it's GONE! Only after hashing it out, however many times it takes, then MAYBE we'd consider the lifestyle again. But until then, we can do without the "troubles & headaches", or should I say "heartaches"...
Have you both considered searching for another male for your MFM's (at least till you both get this "matter" behind you and worked out for the better)? It's an option I'd think about. *VBS*
This is another reason why we chose to swing with Married/Secured relationship partners. Now that we've been with other couples, and have become good friends, even for non-sexual relationships/get togethers...We're talking about having 3somes (FMF or MFM) for a little spicing up in our sexual adventures as well. *VBS*
Good luck to both of you! ;-)
Wife of CyberMWCouple
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