I think you all are right on this. I have talked to both but not together. I would like to keep this three way going but if I hurt someones feeling by talking honestly to them then I guess I will have to see what happens and start from there. It isnt a problem of me being jealous or afraid of their relationship, it is just that we have always kept everything out in the open and it always made things run smoothly. He has put my wife in a position of either not telling me about his advances or telling me and possibly stopping the relationship. We have always gone on the thought that we would stop doing anything that hurt anyone involved.
You all really seem to have alot of this already figured out and I hope some of your ideas and strength will rub off on us. We have had to keep our lifestyle between ourselves and it is great to hear from you all who share this lifestyle. Thanks.
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