The problem has been trying to stop his advances without gettin my wife upset and scaring the friend off. I still feel we can work thru it and get back to the good part(sex).When I let it be known that it was bothering me, my friend pulled away from us. I have since reopened the relationship but am affraid to ask him by for sex with us. I dont know if I would be opening another can of worms by getting heim and my wife together again. Where we live it is impossible to find a guy that we could trust to keep it discreet and who is in it for the right reasons. When some guys find that they can get alot of sex this way, they think it is a weakness on my part. Know what I mean?
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