Re: What acts will you refuse to do under any circumstances Anything illegal is definitely out of the question, I would have to pass on any golden showers or things on that line. Pain, anything that gives more than a little pinch I won't give and won't receive. Anything involving humiliation is totally out of the question as well.
I can totally understand your issues you had with BDSM, I've dabbled in it some and I find myself usually disliking it. Generally I've played the dominant role but felt as if the sub is actually topping from the bottom and felt more manipulated than anyone doing anything for my pleasure. I tried the sub role once and I enjoyed some of the bondage but I don't take direction very well. Any D/s role playing, especially when it includes bondage, should only be played with trusting individuals and a good understanding of limits. No one should ever be expected to do something that doesn't feel good to them, whether is the dom or the sub.
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~Lilo
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