[LikeMinds321]

How about giving this a try.

Next time you're together and start to kiss, pull back a bit and pause for a moment, look into his eyes with whatever expression you feel appropriate, and ask him, "Would you like to know my favorite way to kiss?"

How can he say no?

Then tell him in an assertive way (I truly think most men like that at the right moment), "Don't do anything, I'm going to do it all." Then begin kissing him, if he starts to use his lips or tongue or responds in any way, stop, tell him, "Don't move, I'm doing this," then continue to show him what you like. When you feel he's had a good lesson, then tell him you'd like him to do the same to you.

See what happens and let me know. I did this once with a great kisser, because I wanted to see what it felt like to control the situation. He loved it. Maybe this will work with your bad kisser.

LM