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Old 07-25-2005, 12:37 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Bad Kissers

Ew. I have a hard time kissing bad kissers. Bad kissing is a total turn-off for me. Like you, I prefer more lip rather than tongue diving. When I was single, I wouldn't go out for a second date with a bad kisser.

Wow, how do you let someone know that they're not kissing you right? I'm a wussy when it comes to telling someone that they're doing something I don't like. I usually just try to avoid doing whatever it is that they're doing. But Kissing? That's an important part of fooling around for me. Something I can't do without.

If I were you, I'd probably tell him that I was uncomfortable with "deep" kissing. I'd say that, for me, it's too intimate to do with swing partners.

That's the wussy way to do it anyway!
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