I did a search and the last time this topic came up was back in december. So I am resurecting it due to a situation that came up recently.
We had a wonderful evening with a new couple we met the other night. We went to a fabulous restaurant and then to a swing club for drinks, dancing and whatever...... We had some great conversation and some very HOT dancing. I have never danced with someone like that, it was great!! I felt attracted to him on a physical and intellectual level but then the kissing. UGH!
He is one of those tongue down your throat kind of guys, all tongue, not much lip. It was not good. Now, I tried to gently let him know what I wanted but he wasn't responsive. I said, very sweetly, at one point, "Let ME kiss YOU." Hoping that might calm him down and he would let me take the lead but no. This is such a problem for me. I don't know what to do.
So my questions: I know we are going to meet again. Should I talk to him about it? If someone told you they wanted you to kiss them differently would you be offended or would you go along with it and try something new?