Re: Bareback? We have gone bare back a time or two.. for me, I have to know the couple really well for that. Its just my preferance. MR BDC doesnt like condoms. However, he does use them if the couple/woman prefers. I am not a pregancy concern since I have had my tubes all but yanked out.. Mr. BDC is fertile though.. So, for us condoms are more of a birth control than an STD factor.
As far as the STD factor, since the people we have played with, we have known really well, it wasnt a big deal. That sounds kinda relaxed but it really isnt for us. However, we still get STD testing done every 6 months just to stay on that groove. We made it a habit and it has stuck with us. As for asking or being asked for documentation.. we cal always provide it for anyone who is interested if and only if we are hitting it off and looks promising to play. We dont ask everyone we chat with or meet to provide that to us since it is very personal
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