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Originally Posted by EvilMJ I think that there is nothing more admirable than loving someone else's child as your own, regardless of the circumstances of their arrival. I think it takes a big person with a big heart to open themselves like this. |
I would tend to agree with this in most cases.
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Originally Posted by EvilMJ I have been reading posts where people say they could not love this child and it makes me sad. It is not the child fault, they are innocent little beings who did not ask to be born and arrived because two people chose to swing. It is not all the wife's fault or responsiblity, you chose to play as a team and the decision to have and raise this child should be made as a team. |
Yes we play as a team and as a team we are not wanting any more childern.
We have our family and as responsible adults we are willing to take what steps are neccesary to keep it the way we planned it. It also takes a strong person to admit their weakness or inability to do something they are against. There are too many unwanted childern in our society already why would a responsible person bring an unwanted child into the world knowing they would not want it. That is a selfish and unkind act in our eyes.