[bear_and_babe]

When we were in a exclusive relationship with another couple we did have to think about this. My husband has the V, the other wife has her tubes tied, so no worries there. But the other husband was not fixed and I am on the pill. We had a case where I was on antibiotics and if you don't know, some antibiotics can cancel out the pills effectiveness. Bear and I talked about it and we decided that if I got preg. then the other couple would have never known about it. I have health issues and would not be able to carry it to term anyway, so we would have to abort.

Please no flames, this is just what we would do for our situation.