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Originally Posted by curiousagain Herpes virus can live for hours in a public restroom or up to ten days in damp towels. |
Conclusion?
Do not clean a restroom with your face or genitalia...
Which comes as particularly bad news for those among us with a johnson shaped like a toilet brush...
We have been involved in the lifestyle for over two years now and I have yet to have an open sore anywhere. We have played with some wonderful folks, most of whom we were very sure of their commitment to safe play and lowering the risks involved in the lifestyle.
You can spend years trying to determine if the water is fine, but the only way to know for sure is to hop in the pool.
The risks are admitted and agreed to, but if you are going to worry that much about it, then swinging really isn't for you. Sure, you have to decide whether or not this fits within your realm of "acceptable risk" - but you strike me as someone who may never be comfortable with that. My honest advice would be to focus on some hot monogamy between you and the missus. Not saying you can't or shouldn't swing - just saying that you may be unable to enjoy it.
As for kissing - yes! I love to. Sex without kissing is boring to me. We knew a couple that was that way (except that the wives could kiss) and sex with them was dull. In fact, the husband of the couple once told me that he'd never had fun in a swinging situation (i.e. fucking another woman). I have to wonder if this wasn't part of the reason.
We would have gladly played soft with them, but even though they were a flat out gorgeous and fun couple, having sex with them was not much fun.
Spoomonkey
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