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Gorgegon · 07-20-2005, 07:03 PM

If my wife gets pregnant by someone else, we tell the father that he had a child, obviously after the appropriate tests were done. However the child will live with us like our own children. We feel obligated to confess the truth to the genetic father not with the intention of getting money from him but to make him decide if he wants to have a relationship with someone that has his own blood, in the early years maybe passing as his or her “uncle” or “godfather” until he or she is old enough to understand the paternity issue. (probably I didn’t explain this well Julie, English is my second language)
If I get another women pregnant I will certainly like to know that I had a child, however I think the mother should decide if she wants to raise him or her, if not, we will take care of our kid the same way we are doing with the ones we have now. If she wants to keep the child and she allow us to visit him I will be happy to be the “uncle” or “godfather” from out of town . But if the couple don’t want us near them, we have to respect that but we would create an education found from elementary to collage and definitely he or she will not be left out in our testament.
What I wouldn’t be able to accept is if I was told that I child of mine was aborted. That is why we are thinking very seriously on getting me the vasectomy done because I can not control how the other couple will react in a situation like this also keep in mind that this is not typical conversation for swingers when you are trying to hook up with another couple. Or is it ?

07-20-2005, 07:03 PM	#4 (permalink)
Gorgegon Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 23 Location: El Paso	Re: Would you want to know? If my wife gets pregnant by someone else, we tell the father that he had a child, obviously after the appropriate tests were done. However the child will live with us like our own children. We feel obligated to confess the truth to the genetic father not with the intention of getting money from him but to make him decide if he wants to have a relationship with someone that has his own blood, in the early years maybe passing as his or her “uncle” or “godfather” until he or she is old enough to understand the paternity issue. (probably I didn’t explain this well Julie, English is my second language) If I get another women pregnant I will certainly like to know that I had a child, however I think the mother should decide if she wants to raise him or her, if not, we will take care of our kid the same way we are doing with the ones we have now. If she wants to keep the child and she allow us to visit him I will be happy to be the “uncle” or “godfather” from out of town . But if the couple don’t want us near them, we have to respect that but we would create an education found from elementary to collage and definitely he or she will not be left out in our testament. What I wouldn’t be able to accept is if I was told that I child of mine was aborted. That is why we are thinking very seriously on getting me the vasectomy done because I can not control how the other couple will react in a situation like this also keep in mind that this is not typical conversation for swingers when you are trying to hook up with another couple. Or is it ?