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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 I have.
It's a strange feeling when it happened because at the start of the swing relationship I knew the guy had - and will continue to have - other play partners, yet, I think there was a part of me that had a fantasy of being his "outstanding" partner. 
I can laugh at myself, because I know that twinge of old-fashioned jealousy will pop up again with other play partners. I think it comes from years of vanilla programming. I figure it may take a while to overcome my knee-jerk reaction but I'm not concerned. |
Good to hear from you LM! I haven't been around here much lately.
Somehow I knew you would respond in that way. We are so in synch. Glad I'm not the only one. I also knew from the start that he had and will continue to have other partners. This isn't a poly relationship. And I also am laughing at myself for feeling like this but feelings are feelings. You can't always predict how a situation will affect you emotionally. You just feel it, deal with it and move on. He will continue to be a good friend and play partner for a long time, I think, and the jealousy will subside. I'm not worried about that. Just found it funny and thought others might like to share their expereinces.
Thanks!
