Hi yes, you have to keep an open mind, and feeling a lot like yourself on some of the issues of the lifestyle I understand where you are coming from. I hope you will keep reading this board and books on the subject, I just want to let you know don't put it off because of your child, that is a comfortable way to hide from all the issues that this question your husband has brought up, when you are feeling uncomfortable I have found like for myself that gives me the issues I need to know more about. Keeping an open mind is not easy so I do hope you will read and talk more to your hubby about ALL of YOUR feeling, if you trust him and what he says to you, then as you learn about the way this lifestyle works you will fine that you and your husband are going to be so much more closer than before. Our world has shaped our minds and most of us do not realize it is not the way we feel in our being but only in the MIND. I wished that my hubby and I could have been in this lifestyle before now, we are in our late fifies and this is my second marriage and the only true love of my life. Good luck don't put off learning more about life and others it is a lot more than just fucking others!!!!! It is about being the real human being that the spirit made us to be I think!! Happiness to you both!!
