well here is old newbie again, I had this rule when we first started it was the only way I could go into a solf-swing situation, I have grown a lot and know that love and sex are differnet, yes the old lifestyle ways are going out for the new lifestyle we are begining. I have a great man, he knows how I think and do not push the issue with me but I knew how he felt, we talked and talked and talked somemore .I love this lifestyle, every couple should before they are married go through some of our question and answer list, boy what a different world we would have, not too much divorce that way. The funny thing is that I was the one that broke our guideline on no open mouth kissing, we could kiss but not open mouth, it was a funny, so now the rule is out the window where it belongs. lol My hubbie was giving oral to playmate and without thinking about it we just reached for each other and started to kiss. I told hubby later and he just smiled and said so what but thanks for telling me, that you broke one of our guidelines. He told me later that it just made him love me more and created more trust between us, isn't this lifestyle great!!!!! Bear and Bootsie
