Male D,
Trust me, the last thing in the world that you want to get me started on is "golf stories". We'd be up all night...and the ladies would have to amuse themselves...
P.S. She'd have gone for a wedge. Heavier and, she can't hit a four-iron to save her...
hippiechick,
Would it ever have been me? My dear Lord, Woman! You're talking with the ex-King of "acting like a complete ass" where Mrs. Van is concerned. I nearly put a young man through the wall of a bar once and it turned out to be a "joke" on me. Pretty funny, huh? Not... (He wasn't amused either.)
I don't "put it away" but I keep it in check. There is no one more precious to me than my wife. It's hard to not feel "possesive". The trick is to keep it in its proper perspective. (Not sure I've got the "trick" right yet but, I'm trying.

)
Van