[sportync]

I've not read too much concerning the polyamory thing but as far as sharing our relationship with others is concerned, my wife and I probably reflect some of the major differences commonly found between the sexes- and, yes, I'm generalizing here, so I hope I don't offend anyone. Generally speaking, MOST men can get a hard-on for nearly any sexy, good looking, curvy female and if the opportunity presents itself, dive right in with both feet. The ladies, on the other hand, seem to need something more than dashing good looks and a charming smile before they are ready to open themselves up to sexual activity. After all, it's their body that is going to be penetrated and most women have been taught from birth that "good girls DON'T do that sort of thing" unless there are deep feelings envolved. Therefore, my wife needs to feel very comfortable with the other guy and interestingly enough, she needs to feel that the other woman desires me as much as I desire her before she feels comfortable with the situation(did that make any sense?). Due to the safety concerns, she also wants to limit our activities to a select few that also limit their activities to a select few. She was never one to screw around a lot, and hasn't had a lot of sexual partners(she was pretty young when we met), and although I could happily jump into a room full of naked, wreathing bodies and screw to my heart's content, I'm quite happy to limit our play to one or two couples that we really click with. Sportync