You are all right, as of right now it would be for the wrong reasons. I am open minded and willing to see how it goes, who knows later he might be wondering what kind of monster he created! But there is so much we still could try with just the two of us, and even though we've been together 8 years we are still newly weds in a way. (Know what I mean). There is still so much to explore and do and when we've done that and I ready, I might release the beast with in, until then I can keep him busy and so drained he won't have enough to share any way!
