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hippiechick · 07-17-2005, 09:12 PM

I just wanted to say thanks, you guys have all been great. I think for now we are just going to take it slow, I don't want to do any thing that I can't handel. I do think I might be ready later, but for now I think the thought would hurt to much and where it might be ok later down the road, I think seeing my husband with another woman and even me with another man might be something I can't get passed. Some day when we are older I might be more secure. And I have to realize that we have a child who is only 6, and I think I should be SURE even for her, she deserves a happy mom and dad. But I defenatly would like to go and watch and even be watched. Is there a lot of people who do this even for a while? I do find it erotic to have some one screwing right beside us and we both get a veiw of others at play close up. I am into exploreing, I don't want to be an old married couple who have sex as a requirement instead of a loving act, wheter it be makeing love or just plain f#*king !! (ha ha). Which you can do even with your love, and is sometimes more fun! But I do want to say you all have helped me greatly, and if I had not talked with you all I might have jumped into something that would later result in a unhappy marriage if a marriage at all. So THANKS.

07-17-2005, 09:12 PM	#12 (permalink)
hippiechick Active Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 13 Location: Rose, Oklahoma	Re: Am I ready? I just wanted to say thanks, you guys have all been great. I think for now we are just going to take it slow, I don't want to do any thing that I can't handel. I do think I might be ready later, but for now I think the thought would hurt to much and where it might be ok later down the road, I think seeing my husband with another woman and even me with another man might be something I can't get passed. Some day when we are older I might be more secure. And I have to realize that we have a child who is only 6, and I think I should be SURE even for her, she deserves a happy mom and dad. But I defenatly would like to go and watch and even be watched. Is there a lot of people who do this even for a while? I do find it erotic to have some one screwing right beside us and we both get a veiw of others at play close up. I am into exploreing, I don't want to be an old married couple who have sex as a requirement instead of a loving act, wheter it be makeing love or just plain f#*king !! (ha ha). Which you can do even with your love, and is sometimes more fun! But I do want to say you all have helped me greatly, and if I had not talked with you all I might have jumped into something that would later result in a unhappy marriage if a marriage at all. So THANKS.