[SandJinVT]

My hubby and I are generally full swap, same room with other couples. I'm bi, but no way will my hubby sit back and watch - we ALL play, or no one plays.

That said, we have invited single men into our home - and when that happens, they'd better be respectful, uninhibited, perfectly willing to share me, and have a pleasing personality. That means that from the initial email, I don't want to hear "I'm the best fuck you've ever had", or "I'll take you to paradise" or "Hi! I'm what you've been waiting for". lol I'm not waiting for anyone. I married the best fuck I ever had (and I was single for a long time!), and I already live in my paradise, so none of those lines are going to work.

If you want a response from a couple who normally plays with single men, take my advice - be polite, be very open in your first email, be polite, save the physical description of your cock until the second email at least, be polite, send them a G rated pic first not a cock shot, and be polite. Getting the drift?

We've met some very nice single men, some I was attracted to, and some I wasn't. I have to be extremely attracted to a single man before we invite them into our home (not I said ME). My hubby accompanies me to a meeting with you, we talk, we discuss what you like sexually, then I go away to decide if you're what I'm looking for.

Just my two cents.