 Re: Am I ready?
Hi there,
You have gotten very nice replies to your post. I am just going to tell you a bit about our experience.
When I first introduced the idea to her, she thought I was crazy. Deep down she thought I just wanted to sleep with other women with her blessings. I never insisted on it. I would like to point out, however, swinging has never made me wanting to leave my wife for another woman. If swinging has had an "influence" on our life, it has made us deeper in love with each other.
We started only when she was ready (I explained in details in my introduction). We also did not know how we would react to see the other with another partner. But its true that this is something you need to try to understand it. For us, love and communication was always there. We were actually surprised how much we enjoyed the moment when side by side, we doing it.
The whole night, I could not keep my hands off her, we were like a new couple.
One more thing, when we played with "virgin couples" we always tell them, if there is something wrong, something that you are not comfortable with, just tell us. Even if we have to stop everything, we will be fine with it. Others can correct me if I am wrong, but everyone has the right to say "Stop, I am not comfortable with this or that" |