[hippiechick]

Then I guess the next question should be, what about him, and if we just watched does that usually lead to wanting to touch, and is there any suggerstion on how to approch this, with out just shooting him down? I guess it might be helpfull there if I say that I have never been with any one eles but my husband, I was a virgin untill him, and I do think I might like it but what if I try and don't then how to handel that? Because I truly belive you never know until you try, the though dosn't repulse me, but if I think I'm ready and I'm not, how would you get rid of the thought, and how to tust your husband not to want what he can't have? Not to say he has never cheated or done any thing to hurt me, he never has and I don't think he ever would. But once the tast is there what then? I know these are all hypethetical questions, but I just dont know. Has any one been in this situation or know any one who has? Also what if you do it and are realy ok with it at the time, I mean I scrwed the husband, but later you regret it when the sex hormones are not there any more. You do a lot of things in the heat of the moment you wouldn't normally do.