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There may not be as many posts for your thread as you expected because Intuition so adquately gave you all the starting and ending issues as well as any of us could.

Beyond that however; You are not alone in your feelings about everything you've mentioned. We went through it and are still finding things don't go as smoothly as planned. One thing though...please don't do anything that you don't want to do. Don't start swinging unless you're ready to let yourself go. Never take one for the team. Be openminded...remember this is about fulfilling fantasies as much as anything. Let your partner have his and you have yours and then you have those you (hopefully) share.

Good luck and have fun.

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